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I’m queer.  That’s that.  There was a time that I was interested in biological men, that time is no more.  And I’m not making any sort of assumptions or huge life long statements about never being able to look at a man’s biological penis again.  That’s just silly, and I have learned that I’m constantly growing and changing, to a degree.  But what I can firmly say is that a het man is not what I’m remotely interested in.  I’ve made it as clear as I possibly can lately, and yet it seems to be perceived as a challenge.  “I’ll be the one to cure her of the evil dyke disease!”  Well, I’ve had that evil dyke disease as long as I can remember, and quite frankly, I’d rather not be cured.  I enjoy that evil dyke disease.  I embrace it.  I’m a femme queer who revels in her attraction to other biological women, particularly those who are butch.

And I must address the misconception that because I’m primarily attracted to bois that I’m somehow trying to have a man without having a man.  I don’t want a biological man.  I want a boi.  It’s a dymanic I don’t feel I can rightly explain, which may sound stupid as I’m currently writing a blog about my attraction to bois, but it’s not a half-assed replacement for a man, it’s entirely different and much more fulfilling to me as a person.  And while I like to express my feelings on the subject of my sexuality I don’t feel the need to explain it.  I am who I am.  There are tons of labels I could use, but none of them fit me entirely and I’d much rather just be me.

I accept people of all walks of life, all sexualities, all lifestyles, and all I ask is for the same courtesy.  What’s so hard to understand about my sexuality?

About shelbysue

I'm a kinky, submissive babygirl, a pansexual, a writer, speaker, volunteer, activist and all around friendly person. I believe in everyone's right to be who they are, regardless of who that may be. I am strongly drawn to gender bending of all types, especially bois, though I am extremely femme. I'm just a girl for a boi.

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  1. I’m so proud of you , and verproud t be your friend! I love you Baby gurl!


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